Thu 26 May 2005
Open Letter To Gianna / Goodbye Privacy
Posted by Disappearing Boy under BB05 , Big Brother , Rant (Non Political)[11] Comments
Listening To: Shattered Grounds : Elegant Machinery
So this post originally started life yesterday as a humorous BB05-inspired ‘Open Letter’ to Gianna, in the style of Baz Hutchinson from Random Rant. I say ‘originally started’, but of course that’s not where it’s ended up – not by a long shot, groovers.
Now for starters, I must admit I’m pretty addicted to this years series of Big Brother. Part of that addiction lies in the fact that I auditioned again this time round, so of course I want to see what the people who beat me to the show get up to. That’s not the main attraction though of course – I sent in an audition tape last year too, but turned off after the debut show. I’m not a ‘die-hard’ BB fan either, so that’s not the reason I’m addicted this year. I never watched the first series at all (and Sarah Marie always shat me), and only got into the second series a little bit. The series that really got me hooked prior to the latest one however was BB03 – Marty, Jess, Jo, Ben, Reggie and the rest … that was the shit ! This year I’m somewhat addicted again, because of some of the personalities in the house, and because of the various ‘twists’ thrown into the show. True, most of these twists are ‘rip-offs’ from last years UK series (apparently) – but do I care ? Nope !
Why am I telling you all this ? It’s to give you some idea of my attitude to the series, and to establish my level of ‘fandom’. Essentially I’d rate myself as a ‘casual’ BB Fan, not a die-hard. As such, this is actually the first year I’ve bothered to ‘seriously’ visit some ‘non-official’ Big Brother fansites to catch up on some of the ‘rumours’ and gossip surrounding the series and housemates. What I’ve found has truly disturbed me, on a number of levels.
My favourite BB Housemate this year (in case you haven’t guessed yet) is … dur dur … ‘Gianna’. In this of course I’m probably disagreeing with most of Australia (and I’ll be surprised if Gianna lasts past this Sundays eviction show), but honestly that doesn’t bother me. Yes … the girl (and the BB editors who select which footage to show us in the first place, and what to post in the online diary on the official site) does a great job of coming across as somewhat self-absorbed at times – checking herself out in the mirrors on a regular basis, trying to make herself the subject of conversations etc.
However, what her legions of internet detractors (and fellow BB05 Housemates … let’s just say I don’t think Gianna and “I look like the bastard OTHER daughter of Bronwyn Bishop” – Angela – will be catching up for drinks after the series) forget is that self-absorbtion is a pre-req for virtually ANY reality show contestant. Just look at her fellow HM ‘Hotdogs’ for example … now THERE’S a man not shy to insert himself in any conversation. Hell … if I’d managed to get onto the show I’m sure I’d be doing the same. The other thing which annoys people about Gianna is that she’s had a tendency to ‘embellish’ some of her achievements while she’s been in the house, to quote her mum.
To those who dislike this ‘embellishment tendency’ I must again say “so fŨckin what ?”. In a house full of big personalities like Hotdogs, Michelle (the champion hurdler) and others, who WOULDN’T feel the urge to ‘talk up’ some of their past to make themselves seem a bit more ‘important’ – especially given the competitive nature of the show. What people seem to forget, is that Giannas only ‘sins’, as far as I can see, is to do what we would all do in her situation. According to her mum, and according to the girl herself, she was picked on pretty badly at school, and speaking from personal experience I can tell you this can lead to ‘overcompensating’ behaviour in later adult life where you desperately try to do anything you can to prove those highschool motherfŨckers were wrong about you. Including and not limited to ‘talking’ up the achievements you have made so far.
Now, as I said earlier – what I’ve found on some of the BB05 fansites, along with various news sites, has disturbed me for various reasons. One of the things which has disturbed is the level of general viciousness with which people who aren’t fans of Gianna have attacked her for a variety of ‘real’ and imagined ‘shortcomings’. These attacks range from the completely moronic (“she reckons she was a champion hurdler” – no you dick, that’s Michelle, or “she’s a slut” – sorry … haven’t seen any evidence of that, and one of the reasons she seems to be on the ‘outer’ with most of the guys in the house is precisely because she says she wants a ‘long term’ relationship) to the methodical-obsessive (“she played sport X at age Y and only achieved a grade of Z, then she moved from A to B, worked with a guy called Bob who says” etc) to the plain irrelevant (“I worked with her at Origin Energy and she was always sucking up to the boss”).
The common thread which seems to tie all these attacks together is the kind of mob-mentality, “lets pick on the person who doesn’t fit in” / “Tall Poppy Syndrome” mindlessness with which anyone who wasn’t very popular at higschool and/or is a high-achiever is only all too familiar. It’s bullshit – it’s the unformed howl of a million fat, suburban plebs who have never done anything with their lives, and never will. It’s a bunch of nerdy, stalker-obsessive internet geeks dragging up personal details about someone (fleetingly) ‘famous’ in the hopes of bringing them down. That perhaps is the thing which REALLY disturbs me, more than anything else.
See, I don’t know about you – but I still think people are entitled to some level of ‘privacy’, even those of us who are (minor) celebrities. Some would argue if you go on a ‘reality show’ you forfeit your right to privacy, but I disagree. More cameras in the house – sure. Personal details of some ‘relevance’ to the show and establishing the ‘character’ of the contestant – I’m all for that. However, there’s a point beyond which I think privacy should still be respected. Tabloid news outlets have been digging, and brought out Gianna’s ex-fiancee, who to his credit, had only nice things to say about her. They made big news of the fact HE happens to be an ex-stripper though. Even that, I guess, is to be expected in our ‘dirt relishing’ society.
It doesn’t stop there however, fans. While it’s regrettable, as I said tabloid news is a pretty standard feature of contemporary society, and the nature of ‘celebrity’. However, the anti-Gianna brigade has taken things to a much more ‘personal’ level than that, and crossed the lines between ‘public’ and ‘private’, robbing Gianna of her basic ‘right to privacy’, at least in my opinion. Her ex-coworkers from Origin Energy have posted pictures of Gianna from their 2003 & 2004 work Christmas parties on the ‘net, and made various derogatory remarks. That’s getting a bit much. Others have posted the full text of her application for last years “Ambassador for Adelaide” competition. Again, I think that’s a bit of a privacy issue. However, it’s even worse than that and in this last shredding of Gianna’s privacy Big Brother himself has actually played a part – inadvertently or otherwise.
The other night in an ‘up late’ show, Gianna was apparently discussing a certain sport with one of the other HM’s. I say ‘apparently’ because I don’t watch the ‘up-late’ shows myself – I got this, surprise surprise, from one of the ‘stalky internet geek’ fansites. The producers bleeped out part of the conversation, but what they failed to bleep out was the name of the sporting outlet associated with the topic of conversation which happens to be on the street in which Gianna lives ! This is a pretty major fŨck-up on Big Brother’s part … I wonder if it was intentional ?
Why is this failure to bleep pretty serious ? Let’s play connect the dots. Using some of the resources mentioned above, it’s a piece of piss to find out which suburb of Adelaide Gianna and her dog Cheeky live in. Next, we hit the website of the sporting chain … the branch in that particular suburb is located on such and such a street. Finally, we jump over to whitepages.com.au, enter Giannas full real name, the street, and the suburb. Hey fŨcking presto – I now have Giannas home address and telephone number !!! So does any fŨcking dickwad with an IQ above 50, and access to the internet. Ditto all their friends they have just texted it to. THIS IS JUST SOOO F*CKING WRONG, ON SO MANY LEVELS !!!
It’s one thing to ‘dig up dirt’ to sell your tabloids, or promote your internet site. In the context of Big Brother and its producers, it’s even ‘fine’ to edit the masses of footage you’ve got coming from the house to build up a certain ‘picture’ and ‘story’ about the Housemates – no matter whether this portrayal is accurate or not. But it’s NOT OK, in my view, to make it possible for any Tom, Dick and Harry with half a brain to actually find out the home address of your contestants. Especially when, in the case of someone like poor Gianna – you are helping to feed the resentment of the aforementioned howling masses through your editing of the show and the online diary.
I’m a nice guy – so I’m not gonna ring Gianna’s number after the show is over, and if I do anything with her address at all, it’s gonna be simply sending a short letter of support. Unfortunately, the world is full of fucktards … not everyone is as nice as I am, and a lot of people are pretty pissed at Gianna for stupid reasons outlined above. By completely invading her privacy and making it possible to obtain her address, some irresponsible people (including the BB05 producers, who contributed to this with their sloppy editing) have potentially placed her at real risk.
That is disturbing, and the reason why this post has ended up a rant instead of a humorous ‘Open Letter’. Peace out, y’all ….
May 26th, 2005 at 1:58 pm
Boooo, hiss.
May 26th, 2005 at 2:06 pm
Sure you still wanna try out for Idol ? I’ve half a mind not to audition for BB next year now !
May 26th, 2005 at 2:07 pm
True, while we only get to see what the media & BB presents us with, which may indeed cloud our judgement.. her statements that “are” quoted.. come off as her sounding like a whingy, pompous & arrogant twit. Im sure we wouldnt all bignote ourselves if in the house – you dont see the demure Kate or the street-savvy Tim coming off like a wanker!
In this case, alot of it is what you get is what you see – that’s why people watch it!!
But yes, dont like the intrusion of privacy at all. But that comes with the fame, kiddo.
Gianna/Janie is like most of us – she “part=completes” the science degree, the sporting achievements & other accomplishments. She still comes across as faecitious and shallow in her interactions with her HMs.. Sorry. That’s not “tall poppy”. I wish she could be portrayed differently – for your EYE-CANDYs sake – but thats the sad fact.
PS – i dont want to resemble that mirror-loving wench, thanks!
May 26th, 2005 at 2:11 pm
yes, still will audition for Idol.
Was into it before you came on the picture & will continue to try out till i get in. I just like singing
i dont care if they think i suck, as long as they dont show me on TV amongst the losers!! lol.
May 26th, 2005 at 2:19 pm
|| She still comes across as faecitious and shallow in her interactions with her HMs.. Sorry. That’s not “tall poppy”. I wish she could be portrayed differently – for your EYE-CANDYs sake – but thats the sad fact ||
Hey, it’s not about the eye-candy. Sure, I think she’s cute, but that’s not the point of this rant. In the picture of her with her mum she looks anything but glamerous … just like any normal person, she’s just trying to make the most of what she’s got ..
|| PS i dont want to resemble that mirror-loving wench, thanks! ||
OK, I won’t mention that again
|| yes, still will audition for Idol. Was into it before you came on the picture & will continue to try out till i get in. I just like singing i dont care if they think i suck, as long as they dont show me on TV amongst the losers!! ||
The Idol question wasn’t about me, it was about the fact that conceivably if you got on some fucking moron with an Idol fansite could figure out how to get YOUR address too …
May 26th, 2005 at 3:01 pm
Ok – for those of you playing at home, the reason im getting fired up about this is the following:-
a) While i agree that a person has the right to privacy & their details shouldn’t be published on the net, a person omits alot of their privacy when they become famous. Im not saying they deserve the discomfort this brings, but it happens.
b) I dont believe DB would feel quite so passionate if it was one of the blokes.. say, Michael?
Gianna is a bit of a looker i admit, but that kind of crap can happen to anyone in the public eye.
c) DB also mentioned the public’s perception of Gianna, now although my opinion against may be perceived as a little biased, that is just my opinion. ADmittedly, you cant always judge a book by its cover and BB will only broadcast want it wants you to see.
To me:- if it looks like shit & smells like shit, then it probably IS shit!! Capito? *phew. thank you
May 26th, 2005 at 8:30 pm
Backing you all the way IG. She’s a twat. And anyone knows that the sucky over-achiever and over-embellisher is rightfully deserving of our scorn. I’m all for being proud of your (genuine) achievements, but Gianna does it with this desperate air of wanting to please and/or impress.
Basically – Aussies don’t like bullshit artists. It’s not about the Tall Poppy thing because she’s not a Tall Poppy. Just full of shit and full of herself.
May 28th, 2005 at 11:35 am
fucktards!
I love it and I’m going to steal it but for the first few posts I’ll source the quote respectfully(do I need to source single words?)
Is this academia?
Ah, but i love it anyway – ‘fucktards’, it’s going to be rolling off my tongue for years to come.
It’s the best compilations of sylables I’ve heard since ‘nutjods’. (is that one ‘l’ or two?)
June 1st, 2005 at 11:13 am
I hate this year’s version of Big Brother but still manage to watch it occasionally when waiting for something else to come on. I think the amount of bitching they all do about each other is just NUTS. Angela – she gets the cheap laughs by sniping about everyone else and is just HARSH as a way of deflecting criticism about herself that just comes off nasty.
Glen I wouldn’t touch with a 10 ft bargepole. Gianna … unless she was quoted out of context with this “I was too sexy for BB” … ummm until that point I almost felt sorry for her but that’s a bit much?
July 17th, 2005 at 7:33 pm
if ne1 knows how to apply to big bro 06 pls contact S2_hazard_on_legs_S2@hotmail.com
August 22nd, 2005 at 8:28 pm
I aggree in theory that privacy is forfiet when you get your “15 minutes of fame” but i must admit it seems BB did fuck up big time with thier editing, the plebs and (lmfao) “fuctards” don’t need any help or encouragement.
you do make a good point there DB. Gianna was treated rather poorly by the media’s tabloid mentality.
she was nice to look at and there will always be girls who are nice to look at on tv, ratings will die quickly without them. as for thier being rocket scientists or dimwits, WHO FUCKEN CARES? they aren’t building rockets, they are there for entertainment and i have to say i was entertained. leave the poor girl alone she has done no harm.